20+ Potty Training Tips and Hacks that Actually Work
Potty training can be a frustrating process for both parents and kids. I found myself reading and talking about poo more than I ever thought I would in my life. My son is especially strong-willed so potty training him has, at times, been a battle. That’s why I needed to learn every little tip, trick, and hack to make potty training just a little bit easier.
Here I have compiled the 20 best tips and hacks that I have found and tried, as well as some other posts on the subject that. These will all make potty training much easier for both you and your child. It’s important to be prepared and open with your child about potty training. Including them in the process will help ease fear and make it the normal thing to do. And remember to try and find the humor in it as much as possible!
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Before you Start with Potty Training
1. Get lots of potty training books and start reading them before you start training. Having books with characters that they like is also a good idea so that they are more interested. For us, that was Elmo. There are also some great books with Daniel Tiger or other characters as well.
These are my favorite potty training books:
2. Another great way to introduce the idea of potty training is to do some “potty play”. There is a bath toy called the potty duck that I used to introduce the idea. It is a little rubber duck squirt toy and a potty that adheres to the side of the bath with suction cups. You fill the duck with water and have them “pee” in the toilet by squirting the water out. Then there is a bottom on top to “flush” the toilet! My son had a lot of fun playing with this and it was a great way to help him learn through play.
3. Another way to demonstrate through play is to have a stuffed animal or toy use the potty. See how Mickey Mouse uses the potty? Then, let them try. This helps ease the fear that kids often have around the potty.
Time to Start Potty Training
4. Starting with naked time is a tip that most parents already know but how do you make that difficult transition to underwear? The trick is to have them go commando for a while. This eases them into the idea of having something on again and still going to the potty.
5. Put them in control! Have them push their pants down and pull them up. This empowers them and reduces power struggles. It made a huge difference in my son when I started having him do more on his own.
6. Have a bin of toys/activities next to their potty to keep them occupied in one room and close to the potty. If you can’t keep them contained, then I recommend having multiple potty seats in any room you might be playing in. In the beginning, it’s important to always be close to a potty!
7. Make it fun! Add some food coloring to the potty and have them watch as their pee changes the color. For example, if you put blue in, it will turn green when they pee.
Clean Up
8. There will be accidents. It’s part of the process. If you have carpets in your house, then you will need a good urine stain remover for clean up. I used one for pet stains and it worked really well!
9. Get some large coffee filters and put them in the little potty for quick and easy poo removal!
On-The-Go
10. Once you start going out of the house, you will need something for on-the-go. You can get a little fold-able cover for the big potty to make it toddler sized or just have them sit backwards on the big potty.
11. If the auto flush in public restrooms scares them, carry some post-its with you to cover the sensor.
12. Give them a little backpack to carry with their potty supplies in it. This is another way to put them in control and let them feel useful. You can let them pick a backpack that they love too! There are lots of different toddler sized backpacks shaped like animals that makes it fun.
13. Carry a wet bag with you when you are out of the house so you have somewhere to keep wet clothes in case of an accident.
14. If there is no bathroom nearby (like if you are out for a hike) it is no problem for boys who can pee anywhere standing up. It’s a different story for girls. To solve this, find a rock or log and put their heels on it, holding them under the arms so that they don’t pee on themselves.
Nighttime Potty Training
15. For night training, keep a little potty seat in your kid’s bedroom to make any middle of the night bathroom breaks easier.
16. Layer their bed with waterproof mattress protectors and sheets so that if they have an accident in the middle of the night you don’t have to fumble looking for sheets. Instead, just remove the soiled layer and there are clean sheets already on the bed! If you want a disposable option, try using puppy training pads.
General Tips
17. More than anything, stay relaxed! That can be really hard (and might mean having the house stocked with wine and beer) but toddlers feed off emotion. If you get upset and frustrated, they will too. Staying calm and relaxed will help avoid a power struggle.
18. To teach a boy to aim, put some cereal in the potty and have some “target practice”.
19. If you have to go out with a pull-up, put undies on first, the cover with the pull-up. That way if they mess, they still feel it. This is especially recommended for special needs kids.
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20. Not everyone uses pull-ups, but if you do, call them practice undies so the purpose is very clear.
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To read more about our potty training journey as well as some funny stories, check out The “Joys” of Potty Training.
Here are some more great potty training articles and tips from other moms!
Potty Training Tips by Age
Potty Training Before 2 from Paper Heart Family
Adventures in Potty Training my 21 Month Old and One Year Later update From Little Prince Leopold
Potty Training a 2 Year Old from The Girl Outnumbered
5 Potty Training Tips for a Three Year Old from Jalisa Harris
Potty Training Essentials from the Mother of Late Potty Trainer from Reluctant SAHM
General Potty Training Tips
The 10 Ultimate Tips for Quick and Easy Potty Training Success from Forgotten Lattes
She had a hard time with her oldest and compiled her best tips from her experience!
Potty Training in One Day and Other Myths from Worth Writing For
Potty Training in a weekend just isn’t realistic for some kids. If you are struggling with potty training, this is a great read.
And Just Like That Our Little Lady Was Potty Trained from Noteworthy Mommy
Tips from a mom who had an easier time potty training her little girl.
5 Tools to Get your Toddler Interested in Potty Training from The Cinnamon Mom
Getting a child interested and excited before starting makes a huge difference.
4 Secrets on Potty Training your Child from Teach.Workout.Love
General potty training tips and products to buy.
Potty Training Videos and Books for Toddlers from Healthy Happy Thrifty Family
How to Potty Train a Boy (Without Driving Yourself Crazy) from The Salty Mamas
Toilet-Training Your Monster – Commando Style from Supermom Hacks
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52 Comments
Ashley
I need all the potty training help I can get. I was really nervous about it all but now I actually feel a little excited.
Kat
It doesn’t HAVE to be horrible! haha
Ashley
Read this twice!!!! Ah, this is perfectly timed and very helpful. Thank you so much.
Kat
I’m glad it was helpful!
Danielle
I have heard about some of these potty training hacks!!! So many good ideas here. Once I start trying to potty train Avery I will for sure remember these.
Kat
I hope they help you!
Michele
These are such great potty training tips! I wish I would have had these for the first, second or third time I have potty trained! Good thing I get to try our these pro potty training tips this time!
Kat
Haha. I hope they help!
Nicki
Great tips! I only have one child and she was pretty easy to potty train (I think). I thought it was a lot like training a puppy to be honest. They eat…put them on the potty. They wake up…put them on the potty. Funny huh?
Kat
haha, my son was not like that at all!
Nicole
I’m saving this for my next daughter! She’s already a very fiesty 1.5 year old so potty training will be a challenge I’m sure!
Kat
I wish you the best of luck!
Kristine
I really love these potty training tips! I never would have thought about needing sticky notes for potty training, that is such a pro tip! I feel like we will be in diapers forever, but these tips will be helpful in our potty training journey. Thank you!!
Kat
I really hope they help you with potty training! You can do it and feel free to ask me any potty training advice along your journey!
Pauline
Great tips. We are in the midst of potty training…
Kat
I hope these help you!
Katie
I’ll have to save this for the future. No kiddos yet!
Kat
I hope it helps future you. 😁
Cindy
It’s been a long time since I’ve potty trained but these are great tips! Some very clever suggestions here.
Kat
Thank you so much!
Tricia Snow
I am glad you have a sense of humor about it!
Kat
Only thing I can do! I’d go crazy without it!
T.M. Brown
Oh, my gosh – that potty duck! What a trip!
Kat
It really helped my son to learn through play with the potty duck!
Liza
The target practice cracked me up!
Kat
haha, if we can’t laugh about potty training then it will drive us crazy!
Anna
These are all really great tips. Saving it for later when I have kids. Thanks for sharing
Kat
I hope it can help you one day!
jen
I do NOT miss those days LOL
Kat
It is NOT a fun stage!
LEIGH ANN
Great tips! Maybe mmas can use all the help we can get on this topic.
Kat
I know I needed a lot of help!
Tiffany
Great tips! Where was this years ago!!
Kat
Thank you!
Caitlin
This is great and well thought out! Those years can be tough, thanks for sharing!
Kat
Thank you. It hasn’t been fun for us, I’m hoping I can help some other families out.
Nikki
So much awesome information. Where was all this stuff when my girl needed to be potty trained. She did pretty good, but some of this stuff would have really helped
Kat
It’s amazing how having a community can help!
Tracey Skafidas
Great tips for toddler parents! Once it’s accomplished it’s hard to remember how long it took for my 3 boys!
Kat
It feels like it is never ending when you are in it!
Stacey Damiano
Really great tips! My boys are well past this stage, but I know a lot of toddler parents that would love this info!
Kat
Thank you
Molly
Great tips! We always did the nudity trick and their own special potty.
Kat
My son needed a lot of extra help since he just didn’t seem to care!
Emily
You must know that I am currently fighting with my 3 year old to use the potty! These are awesome tips I can’t wait to try! 🙂
Kat
I hope it helps you!
Karie
I loved the potty training by commando. I had my kids trained in 3 days so I think it works like a charm. Great ideas.
Kat
I did the commando thing and it still took my son FOREVER!
julie
I’ve potty trained 4 kids and it never gets easier! I do love the potty inserts too!
Kat
It was not easy for us with the one! haha
Heather
Great tips. I am going to pass them along to my sister, who has a little one.
Kat
I hope it helps her!